If you’re reading this while dealing with an injury, a claim, or a legal process you never expected to be part of, this letter is for you.
Most people don’t plan to deal with the legal system. It shows up suddenly, often during moments of pain, stress, or disruption. I’ve spent years in courtrooms, and one thing is clear. The hardest part for most people isn’t the law itself. It’s the uncertainty.
“Most stress people experience in legal situations comes from not knowing what’s happening,” I’ve said many times. “Confusion adds pressure. Clear answers reduce it.”
This letter isn’t legal advice. It’s practical guidance for staying grounded when the process feels overwhelming.
The Challenge Many People Share
Studies consistently show that people involved in legal disputes report higher stress levels than average. Research also indicates that clients who understand timelines and next steps feel more in control, even when cases take time. Court backlogs across Canada mean many matters last months or longer, which can intensify anxiety when expectations aren’t clear.
“Law moves at its own pace,” I often remind clients. “People deserve to understand that pace so they can plan their lives around it.”
The problem isn’t that people aren’t capable. It’s that they’re rarely given clear explanations at the start.
Why Preparation Matters More Than Pressure
One belief I hold strongly is that preparation matters more than urgency.
“Court doesn’t reward improvisation,” I’ve said. “Preparation changes outcomes.”
That applies to individuals too. When people feel prepared, stress decreases. Decisions improve. Conversations become clearer.
Another truth I’ve learned is that faster is not always better.
“Slower, structured growth is often healthier,” I’ve said about both business and legal matters. “Stability matters more than speed.”
Legal processes take time. Fighting that reality usually increases frustration. Working with it builds confidence.
What You Can Do This Week
You don’t need to understand every legal detail to protect yourself. Here are 10 simple actions you can take this week:
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Write down every question you have, even small ones.
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Ask for timelines in plain language.
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Keep all documents in one place.
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Take notes during calls or meetings.
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Ask what the next step is before ending any conversation.
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Avoid rushing decisions when you feel emotional.
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Request written summaries when possible.
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Build a basic calendar of key dates.
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Step away briefly when stress spikes.
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Remind yourself that uncertainty does not mean failure.
“People don’t need to know the law,” I often say. “They need to know what to expect.”
A Simple Ask
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, choose one action from the list above. Commit to it for seven days.
Not perfectly. Just consistently.
“Preparation isn’t about control,” I’ve said. “It’s about confidence.”
If this letter resonates, share it with someone who’s dealing with an injury, a claim, or a difficult legal process. Most people don’t need more information. They need reassurance that what they’re feeling is normal—and manageable.
About Gary Mazin
Gary Mazin is a Toronto-based personal injury lawyer and the owner of Mazin & Associates, PC. Born in the Soviet Union, he immigrated to Canada as a child and built his career through education and courtroom experience. He holds degrees from the University of Toronto, Osgoode Hall Law School, and the Schulich School of Business. Outside of work, he enjoys chess, swimming, traveling, and spending time with his family. He is also committed to giving back, including supporting healthcare initiatives through the United Health Network.
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